This is a question
I get quite often from my weight loss clients. Not only is it OK to splurge now
and again, I actually insist on it!
There are lots of
reasons why it is perfectly fine to go off your diet a few times each week:
1) You don’t need
to be perfect on your diet to attain your weight loss and health improvement
goals. If you are good 90% of the time, you will do awesome. If you eat 21
meals a week, being good 90% of the time leaves 2 meals a week to have some
fun.
2) There are times
in your life where eating junk food is just fun and appropriate. When I am at a
Jets or Islanders game, I am not eating a can of black beans with nuts and a
piece of fruit. It is just not going to happen.
3) It is not
realistic to be perfect on your diet, so why set yourself up for failure? A big
part of my weight loss program is strictly limiting refined carbohydrates like
bread, white rice, pasta and desserts. If I told a client that they could
never, ever eat any of these foods again, even the most motivated of them would
last a few weeks or at most a few months. However, knowing you can have these
foods a few times a week makes it much easier to stay on the program long term,
which is necessary if you want to hit your goals. At the end of the day, being
able to go off your diet twice a week significantly improves long-term
adherence.
4) Having the
ability to go off your diet gives you options when you are not in control of
your food choices. For example, being invited to a wedding or a dinner party
can be a big problem if you are trying to be tight with your diet. You don’t
really know what you are going to be served. Using one of your splurge meals at
the event will allow you to eat whatever is there and not worry about going off
your plan.
5) It may even
help you to lose weight to overeat a bit twice a week. While I have seen no
hard research data on this at all, I feel that overeating a few times a week
may relax your body’s natural defense mechanism to a chronic decrease in
calories.
I do have just a
couple of rules for my clients when it comes to splurging:
1) These are
splurge meals, not splurge days. In other words, these are not 10 hour affairs,
just 1 meal.
2) No back to back
splurges. Keeping a stable blood sugar is the key to long-term calorie
reduction. Splurging two days in a row can really throw off your blood sugar
and kick start hunger and cravings. I have my clients have a splurge meal midweek
on Wednesday and another on Saturday.
3) I have my
clients avoid sugar even on splurge meals. It is just too addictive for most
people who are trying to lose weight. However, sugar free desserts are
permitted on splurge meals for those who have a sweet tooth.